Why Spiritual Awakenings breaks your relationships: And the Three Love Connections

Have you experienced relationships of the past where everything at first started to go well but then out of nowhere things started going wrong? You started fighting and disagreeing and it’s like no matter what you did you couldn’t come to an agreement or settle fights, which eventually led to a breakup? Did the flip take you by surprise and catch you off guard? We’re you expecting to be together until death?

In this article I will first share with you the light and dark sides of love, how we get hooked in, and finally the three types of connections that you need to know about in order to have a happy successful relationship that doesn’t end in breakup, gives energy, and fulfills both parties.

Relationships, especially love relationships are these tricky agreements that we make with people who mirror are shadow. This is the purpose, point, and ending of every love connection you have. It is met to bring out the shadow within us.

It has been designed and fabricated by the universe to help us understand ourselves on a deeper level.

It serves as a mirror so we are forced to look at the things within us that need working on, that need to come to the surface so that we become more conscious.

This is rule #1 in entering a new relationship. Be aware of and know why you are both entering a relationship.

A relationship is a contract, it’s an agreement like anything else. And the more conscious the agreement, which means communicating your intents, needs, and wishes at the beginning so no party is left confused or hurt or feeling taken advantage of at the end of the relationship, if it comes to that.

Many people enter relationships unconsciously. That is they find another person physically attractive, they end up hooking up sexually which binds their life energies together, and then somehow they stick with one another. Not too long after though each person’s shadows’ starts to come up. Living daily with the other person you start to see who they really are and what has been lurking under the surface. These are the parts of them that they might’ve not seen or noticed and neither did you before you got involved with them physically. You suddenly start fighting because you realize they are not the person you thought they were. In other words, they are not meeting your expectations. But this is not their fault if you didn’t first communicate your expectations from the start.

Many people get confused when they enter into a relationship only to find themselves fighting with the person weeks or months later. “But it was so perfect and fairytale in the beginning!” We tell ourselves. “Where did it all go wrong.” It went wrong the second you didn’t lay down your expectations and what you can provide for one another. All humans have needs.

And in order to keep relationships in a smooth keel we have to communicate our needs and expectations from the start. The reason why we never saw the shadow coming is because we are trained and conditioned to sell ourselves and hide our shadow sides from people, even our loved ones.

Everyone has a shadow until the divine comes in and pulls it out of you, very painfully I may add. Relationship is the crux where are shadow is forced to come to the surface because it is in relationship where we share our true self with our beloved. For the average person our beloveds know more about us than anyone else. Energetically, we are sharing more of ourselves with them than any other aspect of our life. Naturally, the more you share of yourself the more you will develop. This is why the shadow comes to the surface later. Because once we have opened up energetically to our love naturally the less lovable parts of us spillout as they inevitably will and things start to go awry.

We get hooked in because we are attracted to that person on the outside in some way. They may have physical attributes, money, or great family connections.

They probably have some amazing inner qualities do as most humans do when you take the time to get to know them. But as you make your way deeper into their being through sharing time and energy with them you get to darker and darker corners. And they get closer to your deeper caverns as well. This is simply just the process of any relationship and getting to know someone, including getting to know yourself.

Now for the most important part! The three types of love relationships and how they form. Each level has to do with how conscious you are as a human being. And the more conscious you are the less upset and frustrated and disappointed you will be because consciousness has to do with how aware you are of yourself and the world. With more awareness comes more wisdom and understanding which leads to less disappointment.

The first type of connection or relationship is the root connection. People living from this chakra are interested in survival. That means satisfying their basic needs such as food, sex, and money. Many people come together at this level.

They unconsciously hook up and then they say, “While that person was a good lay and they have money too. Oh I should stick with them!” In this type of relationship people hook into one another at the root levels and are concerned mostly with survival and reproduction. It is doomed to have a lot of dissatisfaction and upset because each person will eventually become aware of their higher needs such as the need for true love and unconditional acceptance. When the person begins to realize their partner cannot satisfy this within them then they start to grow resentful, upset, and appear to be needy.

The second type of connection is the connection that forms at the sacral and heart levels. You may feel attracted to a person and you may engage physically which binds your energies but then you both also work your way up to the heart level where you attach through the level of the heart.

Your bonded at the sacral and at the heart levels. This relationship is where many people in the United States reside. They feel deep love for their significant other and for them the most satisfying part of their life comes through this other person. This relationship is healthier then the first but is also doomed to upset and complications. It is important to note here that many people use sex or the sacral connection to begin to find a heart connection. They think that if they bind at the sexual level then the heart will come next. This is true however not advantageous. You should first get to know the person and then if you start feeling a heart connection then that feeling should teach you to act sexually. First you feel the heart and then you consummate. Not, “OK this person is attractive I’am lacking in love maybe if I give myself to them sexually then they will love me.” That is a shadow way of entering the second type of relationship.

The third type of connection is the ultimate union and merging of the divine feminine and masculine. This connection serves both each other, humanity, and god.

We merge at the third eye or crown chakras, heart chakras, and then consummate this connection by merging at the sacral. This is the most conscious relationship where first both people see if they both view the world the same way at the mental level. You have to view the world similarly because then you can communicate to one another effectively. You can have a deep heart connection with a person yet if they don’t see things similarly as you in terms of how the individual experiences reality then this can cause problems. I don’t mean having similar beliefs about the world I mean understanding how the world works and our connection to it, ourselves, and one another. This is why many relationships end when spiritual awakening occurs, a video I will make next.

In my last relationship, I started becoming aware of the subtle dimensions of life and how we are all connected. I was aware of how I was connected to my girlfriend at the time and how she was connected to other people via emotions and thought streams that take place within consciousness.

As I was becoming more aware and sensitive to the subtle realms I couldn’t share my experience with her and this was frustrating for me and her. I had deep love for the person but I also needed someone who could understand the subtle dimension of life and how much they were affecting me because when you become sensitive the subtle dimensions of life become very important to pay attention to as they control everything we do at the physical including the way we think, feel, and experience.

I was receiving energies that were incredibly painful for me to experience. Because my consciousness stream and awareness was higher I could feel, see, and sense things which I experienced as painful which she didn’t have the awareness or sensitivity to yet. How to communicate to someone a level of experience that they themselves have never witnessed or understood?

This is why the last type of relationship is the most desired and perfect relationship to have.

First, you share each other’s mental world’s with one another, then you share with each other emotionally, and then finally you consummate these connections in the act of sex. This is the most profitable way to do it, from the top down. Not like the bottom up how we do things in our society.

Deepest blessings and grace to you all!

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